I once thought that if I sacrifice my own happiness and comfort for the sake of others, people will accept me and be fond of me.For them it maybe just a small portion of my time and effort but for me I already made a difference for them. I don’t expect any gratitude or anything in return, seeing them smile and knowing that their burden were lessen is already enough for me. I often say “it’s okay” and seldom do I say “no” as long as I can. But it seems like a single mistake can change their perspective of me and look at me as if I made a crime. Inspite of that, I still regard them as special to me and important part of my life.
PS. Just put the blame on me, I will accept it if that’s what will make them happy. I may be weak sometimes but don’t worry I can handle it.